|We often see things the way we want them to be seen|
Life every day offers us challenging situations, which if dealt wisely, then things go smoothly till the end of the day, but if something goes bad, we are left feeling frazzled, exhausted and worn out.Thus if at that moment someone comes up to us and does something for suppose stupid, we burst out into anger, without realizing that we are overreacting, by taking out our frustration on that person who can be our loved one or a complete stranger. But this doesn't help us at all, instead a tinge of guilt dominates our feelings and we regret for our behavior later.
We become so selfish at times because that we start seeing things only in the way we want to see them. Suppose you are in your car, in the middle of the road, you cannot move ahead because you are stuck in a traffic jam,suddenly a motorcyclist and a bus driver appear, who keep buzzing their horns over your head.No doubt you would start flaming within a nano second at this, but cursing would not be the right thing to do. Rather remaining silent and ignoring such people is the best way to handle such situation.
Before speaking we must always be careful with our choice of words. Because everybody in life has a mess to deal with and resolve problems which their lives offer them as well.They can be in the form of discontention towards life, fighting addiction, grieving for the loss of a loved one etc.Many people are not good with expressing themselves. They may apparently look like as if they are the happiest but there might be a chance that in reality they are distressed and are going through some hell. So always think wisely before you react upon any stimulus because every good word that comes out from your mouth can be a source of comfort for the other person.