Monday, July 25, 2011

Smile To Change

Change in life is completely inevitable.This is the only constant thing that everyone has to face in life.Even the most beautiful butterfly has to go through metamorphosis before it could fly.Energy,matter and everything in this world at some point changes.Its up to us how we view it.Some people fear change whereas to some it can feel like a second chance in life.

We all dream to be the best in our lives and struggle hard for the betterment of our future.But while doing all this we sometimes tend to forget that it is also important to enjoy these moments as well.With regard to this the best possession which everyone has been given by our creator is a smile .It brings a positive change in everyone's life,A smile from someone can bring happiness to others also.It vanishes away all the negativities from mind and provides courage to face the upcoming challenges boldly.Just rewind in your last month when you had moments to smile.Recall them and feel how much fun it was at that point in

Undoubtedly money also brings change and prosperity but it doesn't always result in making people smile sometimes because a person had a bad day with his boss and the list of reasons goes on.But the change which smile brings in us is completely different.When we actually smile it makes us feel good for our own existence.This change may not be for a lifetime but it can be for a few moments at least.By just smiling while facing everything you don't lose the ownership of this world as your own place.Imagine yourself in a situation in which you are having a dispute with your loved one.If you'll go out of your mind and will say bad things to that person this might result in breakup of your relationship for which you might regret forever.But if you will calm down and make yourself realize that everybody makes mistakes and with a smile on your face will forget that person who is actually sorry,then the bond between you two will eventually be saved

Being human I totally agree that one cannot have fun all the time.But this smile has to be the part of our boring and challenging life.It brings a break to help you get relaxed,charged up and also makes you feel comfortable while working.Do spent sometime in your comfort zone.If you don't have one then create it as it will help you smile freely and helps you to stay happy even if you are living a boring routine life.Redundancy to anything leads to instability and it should be avoided smartly.In the end i would like to say implement this gesture in your life and turn your world beautiful

Friday, July 22, 2011

Be The Change You Want Others To Be

Attitude of a person shows his mental position and his way of thinking.Thus positive attitude of a person and his optimistic approach towards life is the root cause of a successful life.Positive thinking begins from the core of who we are.People find those people attractive who are positive and spread positive energy into their surrounding rather than those who always have a frown on their face and are pessimistic towards their lives and others in their vicinity.Life is too short to mourn over the negativities happening in one's life.Bad times and obstacles are the part of it and one should learn from his mistakes,endure the grief and move on.

Sometimes somethings in life just happen when we least expect them and sometimes when we expect the worse from our lives miraculously things turn out to be quite well.Our future is a complete mystery .We don't have a control over what life has store in it for us.But one thing is for sure that it entirely depends upon the thinking and the approach of the person how to handle the situation of crisis.The less the person dwells on life's negativity the lesser he will be effected.So think positive in order to play the cards of your life in a better way.

It really does pay to be positive and the advantages include enhanced health and longevity in life.Optimistic people exhibit more coping skills as compared to pessimistic people.They are more resilient when it comes to facing challenges of adversity.

Positive people possess more friends as compared to the negative ones.Positive thinking enables a person to maintain a broader perspective and see the big picture which helps him to identify the solutions whereas negative people maintain a narrower perspective.

Thoughts are under one's control.The pessimistic way of thinking is a habit and habits can be changed.Optimists believe that they are accountable for good and in turn good things will eventually come their way.One way to overcome stress and to think positive is through physical activity ,meditation,aerobics and other different exercises.They can act as the stress relievers.Daily exercise vanishes away the tensions to some extent.It also increases the person's self esteem and lowers the symptoms of mild depression and anxiety.

So the next time whenever a negative thought comes into your mind, think of the alternative situations and always remain optimistic because life is amazing.

Sometimes Happiness Means Just To Move On


Grief comes in everyone's life. We all express it in a different way because ALLAH has made each one of us different. Death is not the only thing for which we are supposed to feel sad. But still when things are going wrong and are not in your control always remember to look at the positive picture.

 Once my brother Balaj said,” If things are going wrong, they won't get worse. They will only get better." And its so true!!.Just remember that no matter in how worse situation you are, sooner or later, something good will definitely come out of it.

In life sometimes our bad times in the end prove to be good for us in a positive way. They teach us those lessons which nobody on this planet bothers to teach us. Though the bad times we face in our lives force us to hate and curse our freaking lives. We have to go through that intense pain. The pain can be in the form of losing a closed one or may be because of some kind of change.

Change in life is inevitable. This is the only constant that everyone has to face in life. Even the most beautiful butterfly has to go through metamorphosis before it could fly. Energy matter everything on this planet at some point changes. The most important thing for us to realize is that how we view change it completely depends on us. Some people fear change whereas to some it can feel like a challenge for which they can do anything in order to win it. Change in this world is constant which if taken positively can prove to be a second chance in your life.

So accept all the changes whether they are good or bad and move on. No matter in how helpless situation you are, just get up and tell your problems that who is the boss. Love your creator. All praises are for HIM. Thank him everyday for blessing you with so amazing friends, brothers and sisters. What else one needs? Celebrate each and everyday and never ever think negative.